Getting a girl interested in you, well, that’s sort of easy, really. A guy who wants to attract me has to seem in charge and not be a pushover. All of us want a man who is in control—not an asshole, but a guy who is cool and confident. It’s hard to get turned on by a guy who is not taking charge, but very easy to get hot for a guy who runs the show.
Look sharp
I love my man to look good, so clothes are important to me, but I’m much happier when the guy is naked.
I like a lot of looks, including a nice-fitting business suit. That turns me on. Just about everybody looks hot in a suit. Jeans and a white T-shirt work, too, especially on a lazy weekend lying around together.
Grooming is important, and not just in the obvious places.It’s really important for a guy who wants to get with me to be trimmed neatly down there.
Tweezed eyebrows is too much. Have you been to L.A.? That’s the least that the guys do here. They have perfect bodies and tans, wear makeup, and sometimes smell better thanmost girls that I know. That might be a bit too groomed.
Be funny
It’s extremely important that a guy be funny. Who wants to hang around with a miserable person? If a guy is cool and can make me laugh, I’ll probably want to go that extra mile for him to please him. Just don’t make me laugh when we’re in bed because that will kind of ruin it for me.
I go over the top all the time; I’m still young and can get away with it, and I like my man to be the same. I just don’t want to bang a comedian.
Does money matter?
It doesn’t take cash to impress me. I see guys with cash all the time and they bore me, so if you’re on a budget, just do the little things, like make sure your clothes and hair are washed and you smell clean. That’s a total turn-on regardless of what a guy wears. A rich guy in a suit with dirty hair or body odor will never get near me.
When to give up
It can be hard to tell the difference between hard to get and “leave me alone.” But I’ll let you in on a little secret: I really don’t think that any girl is out of reach for most guys. Most girls want sex just as much as men do, but we don’t always let on.
If you fade away after your first approach, then you aren’t worth shit. Come back and hit me baby one more time. Be assertive and confident (but not a pest).
Just walk up to the girl and try to strike up a conversation, but don’t use any stupid lines. A good approach, especially in a big city, is, “Hey, I’m new to the city and I think you’re really cute and I’m just looking for somebody cool to go out to dinner and to the movies.” Believe me when I tell you that most chicks will jump at a guy who can deliver this kind of line.
Don’t forget to smile, be friendly, and remember to shave your balls.
Bad boys, bad boys
Girls love the thrill off trying to calm a wild boy. But it doesn’t usually take us long to realize we’re better off starting with a good guy in the first place instead of wasting our time trying to change someone.
Girls want a guy who is exciting in bed and not a boring bag of bones. Be a man and act like one, and don’t take any shit. Otherwise you’ll end up on the outside looking in at her banging somebody else.
It’s okay to be nice, just don’t let her push you around. Don’t pretend to be some badass motherfucker, but don’t be a wimp, either.
Don’t try too hard
You might want to learn a little something about her before you introduce yourself, but not too much. Usually it’s better to just chat with the girl and figure her out for yourself.
Make her want you. Blow her off every once in a while. Showing a girl that you care way more than she does is too sweet. Slow down and make her want you. Pull back a bit and let her approach you. Don’t cave in so fast by being sweet, because that syrup will drown you.
Guys should realize that all girls really want the same thing. We want a guy who cares about us. Girls want to be loved, too.
Women want to be loved back. They want a bit of a hunt without a huge chase and, in the end, they just want security and reliability.
And remember that size doesn’t matter at all—unless it’s totally small. We all like a bit of freak in our gentlemen. Please her well and often and she’s yours forever. Trust me on that one.
About the Author: A fast-rising adult film star, Britney Rears had a breakout hit with her debut film, Britney Rears:Wild Backstage Sex Party. She travels the country and has made appearances on a variety of television and radio programs.
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